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Ask Miriam: 'sister in law's notions aren't welcome on family farm'

A reader in Co Meath seeks Miriam's help in how to deal with a new sister in law who is looking for land to develop unspecified projects despite the couple having no previous interest in farming.

ASK MIRIAM 11 February 2026

Ask Miriam: 'sister in law's notions aren't welcome on family farm'

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‘If music be the food of love, February is the month that sings full of love'

‘If music be the food of love, February is the month that sings full of love'

L2 11 February 2026

Editorial: 'food prices are climbing but we need to buy Irish and support local'

Editorial: 'food prices are climbing but we need to buy Irish and support local'

L2 11 February 2026

‘Preparing for the RTÉ crew was tough – but brought out the best in my family'

‘Preparing for the RTÉ crew was tough – but brought out the best in my family'

‘Preparing for the RTÉ crew was tough – but brought out the best in my family'

KATHERINE O'LEARY 11 February 2026

Dear Miriam: My daughter is forcing me to rehome my beloved little dog Arthur

Dear Miriam: My daughter is forcing me to rehome my beloved little dog Arthur

Dear Miriam: My daughter is forcing me to rehome my beloved little dog Arthur

ASK MIRIAM 4 February 2026

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Editorial: 'the rise and fall of land prices – the Land Report'

Editorial: 'the rise and fall of land prices – the Land Report'

Our 2026 offering has seen the development of an interactive map of Ireland in which land prices can be perused at a glance.

EDITORIAL 21 January 2026

‘On a mission to celebrate and empower women: believe you can make a difference'

‘On a mission to celebrate and empower women: believe you can make a difference'

A trip to An Grianán is to be celebrated, so step up and participate to make a difference.

KATHERINE O'LEARY 21 January 2026

‘A society grows great when we plant trees in whose shade we shall never sit'

‘A society grows great when we plant trees in whose shade we shall never sit'

Trees are a vital part of our heritage, shaping landscapes and communities for generations. Today, we have the chance to give back by replanting and preserving this legacy.

L2 21 January 2026

Dear Miriam: ‘how do I tell my fiancé’s ex she isn’t welcome at our wedding?

Dear Miriam: ‘how do I tell my fiancé’s ex she isn’t welcome at our wedding?

A bride-to-be in Co Cavan asks Miriam's advice on how to deal with the mother of her partner's children, who wants to come to their wedding.

ASK MIRIAM 21 January 2026

‘Change can be difficult – that’s where family and friends come to the rescue’

‘Change can be difficult – that’s where family and friends come to the rescue’

Dealing with a change of plan can be difficult – that's where family and friends come to the rescue.

KATHERINE O'LEARY 21 January 2026

Editorial: ‘during this period of uncertainty for farmers, don’t go it alone'

Editorial: ‘during this period of uncertainty for farmers, don’t go it alone'

Imbolic is a time to bring calm, renew strength and care for both land and mind. Make sure to talk to family and friends.

EDITORIAL 21 January 2026

Dear Miriam: my angry wife’s constant bad form is destroying our marriage

Dear Miriam: my angry wife’s constant bad form is destroying our marriage

A concerned husband shares his worries about possible separation from his wife, whose bad mood and angry outbursts are having a detrimental affect on the whole family.

ASK MIRIAM 21 January 2026

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A message from Bord Bia to Irish farmers and growers

Bord Bia addresses the concerns and misinformation that have been raised in recent weeks.

A message from Bord Bia to Irish farmers and growers

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