D-Day looming? Feeling stressed just thinking about what’s ahead? Being a bit anxious coming up to exams is normal but there are practical things you can do to still those tummy butterflies.
Sally O’Reilly is a counsellor based in east Cork and knows that this time of year can be incredibly stressful for students.
“The reality is hitting, no doubt bashed in by the orals and practicals,” she says. “So here are a few evidence-based and scientifically sound tips that may help.”
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Sometimes a feeling of panic can seem to overwhelm those under stress but this is a breathing exercise that is worth trying.
Mental marathon: eating well
Dietitians at the Irish Nutrition and Dietetic Institute (INDI) say that eating well is particularly important if a mental marathon is coming up.
“When you’re studying for exams, good nutrition often slides down the priority list but eating the wrong foods can make you feel sluggish and jittery – something you don’t want happening on exam days. A long exam is like a mental marathon where endurance is critical. That’s why you need the right food and drink to energise and sustain you and improve your alertness.”
Staying hydrated is also important as dehydration can make you feel irritable and tired – and affect your concentration.
They advise drinking fruit juice, herbal teas and water when studying but limiting caffeine drinks like tea, coffee and colas during exams as they can act as mild diuretics making you need to use the toilet – not ideal in exams.
Walking away from anxiety, literally
Drogheda-based GP and author Dr Harry Barry stresses the importance of exercise, particularly for students preparing for exams who may be experiencing anxiety. “A good, brisk walk will make you feel brighter and more alive,” he says. “It literally livens up your brain.”
Advice for parents
Parenting at this time is often challenging but here are some tips to keep your cool from Sheila O’Malley of Practical Parenting:
Eighteen-year-old student Sophie lives on a farm in the southeast. She is sitting her Leaving Certificate in June and wants to be a teacher.
How is she coping coming up to the exams, though?
“I’m taking breaks by getting outside often – running helps me and yoga and I’m making sure I get enough sleep. I like getting time away from the study situation too, obviously in balance, but it’s good just to remove yourself for a while and do something you enjoy.”
Going in to the exams she says she will have her hair up and will have water and chewing gum with her.
“I like my hair out of my face and chewing gum because I am quite a fidgety person when I’m nervous. It helped me during the Junior Cert.”
If Sophie feels panicky in exams she tries to breathe slowly for a while.
“Either that or I go to the bathroom and come back and start again. I wouldn’t be meditating but I’d just remove and re-evaluate.”
Does Sophie find that talking about the exams makes the stress worse?
“Before the orals it was stress central, but it’s not so bad now.”
There is a lot of support in school for those finding the pressure overwhelming if it’s needed, she says, but everyone copes in a different way, she says.
“You have to find what works for you and what doesn’t.”
Sophie’s mother believes that for parents it’s about keeping calm and the balance right. She found that her daughter relaxed a lot after the oral exams were over.
“In the case of Irish (the oral exam) counts for 40% of the exam and in music the practical is 50% so it’s a big part of your exam over so that’s a relief. At this stage Sophie would nearly rather the exams had started. For students, it’s a case of doing the best you can and hoping that on the day what you’ve concentrated on comes up. It’s a bit like a lottery in ways.”
Sophie’s parents organised a loft space for her to study in so that she would have peace to work.
“Farms are busy places but you try to keep things as quiet as possible.”
When Sophie is home it’s about having food on the go and a supply of pens and A4 pads – whatever she needs for revision.
Prior to the orals wasn’t easy, she admits, with things being a bit fraught sometimes and Sophie not feeling physically well also.
“She developed sinus problems and sore throats but I’m sure a lot of that was brought on by stress,” says her mother. “The points system is crazy. It puts so much pressure on young people.”
A bout of ill-health, however minor, is the last thing anyone wants affecting their last-minute revision or exam performance so what can students – and their parents – do in order for exam candidates to stay well?
Pharmacists often see students coming in seeking medication for stress-related minor ailments like stomach upsets, diarrhoea, cold sores and tension headaches around this time – and help with managing other more serious conditions like eczema in times of stress – so the Irish Pharmacy Union has this advice: